Communication

We communicate all day long. Written, verbal, gestures, body language. We do it in-person as well as remotely. Some of it is casual conversation while some of it is intense business talk. Some of it expresses love while other conversation shows annoyance, agitation, and perhaps even hatred. Along the lines of our in-person conversation, it's estimated that 60% to 90% of what we communicate is non-verbal. This would be the gestures, the body language, the facial expression, and the tone of voice to name a few. Just think about the different ways you could interpret a phrase such as "that was a great shot". It could be a heartfelt appreciation from a team mate who really thought it was a great shot. It could be the sarcastic disappointment of a team mate because it wasn't such a great shot. It could be the jaded remark of an opponent who was just beaten by the shot - who really means "that was a lucky shot". You can see how tone can change the meaning.

This Wednesday, our topic is communication. The bible has a lot to say about this topic. Just look up words like "speak", "listen", and "tongue" to name a few. I'm sure we can all think of some relationships in our lives that could use better communication. Relationships that seem forced, fake, taken for granted, etc. A couple things to think about:

1. We normally have the listening and speaking backwards. In James 1:19, the bible says "…quick to listen, slow to speak…". Ask yourself which more accurately describes you: tend to actively listen or tend to wait to speak.
2. Even when we choose to not say anything, we are communicating. Let's commit to leaving this passive aggressive non-communication behind. It only leads to frustration, resentment, and all other kinds of things that you don't find on the fruits of the spirit list :)
3. Commit to honest communication. The kind of communication where both verbal and non-verbal communication matches up. Communication that isn't shrouded in deceit.

Have a great week and a great fast.
Your brother,
Bob